Alcohol

Halfway through Dry July. Where are you?

Halfway through Dry July. ๐Ÿ—“๏ธ

And right now, youโ€™re probably in one of three places.

Either this has been easier than you expected; youโ€™re sleeping better, thinking clearer, feeling quietly proud of yourself and wondering why you didnโ€™t do this sooner ๐Ÿ’™

Or itโ€™s been harder than you thought; the weekends have been tricky, the social situations have tested you, and youโ€™ve spent more energy than you expected just getting through ๐Ÿ˜”

Or youโ€™ve already had a drink; maybe a few; and youโ€™ve quietly shelved the whole idea until next year ๐Ÿฅ‚

Hereโ€™s what all three of those experiences have in common.

Theyโ€™re telling you something important.

If itโ€™s been easy; that lightness youโ€™re feeling isnโ€™t just the absence of alcohol. Itโ€™s the presence of you. Unfiltered. Unfogged. And itโ€™s been there all along โœจ

If itโ€™s been hard; that difficulty isnโ€™t a sign that you need alcohol. Itโ€™s a sign of how deeply the addiction has convinced you that you do. The craving isnโ€™t a need; itโ€™s a pattern of thought. And thoughts can change ๐Ÿ’ก

And if youโ€™ve already had a drink; thatโ€™s not failure. Thatโ€™s information. Itโ€™s showing you exactly how strong the pull is; and how little willpower has to do with any of it ๐ŸŒฟ

Dry July was never really about the calendar. It was never about being good for 31 days and going back to normal on August 1st. Itโ€™s an invitation to get curious; about what alcohol is actually doing; about what life feels like without it; about what kind of โ€˜normalโ€™ you really want.

Wherever you are at the halfway mark; keep asking the question ๐Ÿ’™

Allen Carrโ€™s Easyway has been answering it for over 40 years.

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